14 Oct Stop the Judgement
Stop the Judgement
Before you judge and criticize others make sure YOUR life is perfect you see, no matter what we do / say/ post there is judgement.
Post an active pictures : Get a dm or comment “must be nice to have time to do that…”
Share a food story or pic “You shouldn’t eat that, or you are eating too much or not enough”
See a mom at school drop off incredibly put together, or incredibly messy… more judgement.
Post a pic with friends : more judgement…. why are you with HER? Why are you wearing THAT? Why are you NOT doing this?
Share a success, a win? More judgement.
Ladies… OMG! Interrupting this here. Let’s stop the judgement. For real.
You never truly know someone else’s journey.
You never know what someone else is walking through.
You never fully have “all the information”
And quite frankly, others opinions (yours included) do not pay the bills, change someone or help people get better.
Judgement is an opinion based on your belief system and experiences. And judgements keep YOU from goals actually.
Judgement is self serving. It helps you validate where you are stuck and makes you temporarily feel superior.
Judgement is gossip when spoken out loud .
And judgement hurts your chances of leveling up.
Take this for example. You want to be fit, toned, wealthy, in a thriving relationship (insert goal here) and then you see someone who has what you want and instead of complimenting and asking how they got there you judge.
You think “fit =s cheating somehow” “wealth =‘s snob” or insert your judgement here.
Your subconscious hears you. And you will continue to not move towards your goal when you judge.
Let’s support other woman
Let’s empower others
Let’s stop the gossip, the judgement and the not helpful “opinions” they speak more about you then the person you are judging.
And if you are being judged? Gossiped about? Know they their opinion of you is none of your business. YOU DO YOU!
XO,
Natalie Jill
